Being An Occasion Of Grace

In layman's  terms, grace is an undeserved kindness bestowed on someone. An example of this could be drivers allowing you to cut across two lanes in rush hour traffic so you can make your left turn without blowing their horns at you. It can also be, replacing your surly child's iPod shuffle, if in fact you were the one who lost it, or even worse, someone at school damaged it.

   If God can extend grace to us after the way we treated and continue to treat His Son, then we need to do so to others in our life.  I'm not saying be open to violence and abuse. What I am saying, is you don't know why some people are acting stupidly, as in the driving situation, or angrily as in the iPod situation. Give people a break and be gracious to them. I know that sometimes graciousness is the best revenge, but your motive should always be to do it because it's the right thing to do. 

   Hurting people tend to try to pass that hurt onto others. Sometimes being gracious can help them heal. You might even get a thank you or an apology. Again that should never be your motive. You could be sadly disappointed if that doesn't happen.

   Realizing how many people have shown you grace can be a humbling experience, especially when you get a warning instead of a moving violation. So remember the times grace has been shown to you and then pay it forward.




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